Sometimes messing up life can be more delighting than going through the routine systematically.
When you do something systematically:
- You do it
- You go home
When you mess up:
- You try to do something
- You mess up
- You try your best to make amends for the mess you made
- In that process you talk with a lot of people (or may be just one) most often through your heart
Emotional intimacy converts into friendship or at least a deep sense of attachment.
That is increased number of people ready to provide warmth to you.
And in the end how happy you are depends a lot on how warm they keep you.
So, if you do something as you should have; OK, go home, sleep well, be happy!
But if you mess up?
Try all out to make amends.
Do not leave anyone unhappy.
Do not allow anyone to sleep that night with a grudge on you.
Then go home. Sleep well.
Next morning you will wake up a lot more happier.
When you have no problem in life you will be happy; but when you have problems and you solve them, you end up happier.
Mess up life.